5 Signs That Prove Your Partner Is Madly In Love With You And 5 Clues That Show he no longer Cares
In his book "The Five Languages of Love", Gary Chapman explains the five languages by which each person can manifest his love. Whether it's small compliments, past moments, gifts or romantic gestures and attentions, we all have our own way of expressing our feelings.
In his book "The Five Languages of Love", Gary Chapman explains the five languages by which each person can manifest his love. Whether it's small compliments, past moments, gifts or romantic gestures and attentions, we all have our own way of expressing our feelings. In contrast, we can also decipher a less romantic language when the relationship is coming to an end.
Today, we want to share with you the five languages of love and the five signs that show that feelings are fading. Sit comfortably, and have a good reading!
1. You are loved: your partner gives you compliments, little surprises and gifts
Even on a Sunday morning without makeup, your partner tells you that you are beautiful. He encourages you and gives you lots of compliments day after day. He shows you his unconditional support and tells you that he is proud of you as you progress through your professional or sporting successes. He surprises you with romantic dinners or small gifts when you get home from work.
2. You are loved: your partner calls you by a small animal name
3. You are loved: your partner does you a favor voluntarily and without complaining
When your partner does services to you on his own, without grumbling, it is because he loves you. He goes shopping, takes out the garbage, cleans or prepares the meal after a long day of work, even if it's not his turn.
4. You are loved: your partner takes time for you
Even in the busiest periods, your partner actively wants to spend time with you. He gives you all his attention, without the distraction of television, phone screens or any other external interference. You are the center of his world, he would not neglect you for whom or anything else.
5. You are loved: your partner is trying to impress you
Your partner cares what you think of him, he wants to show you the best of what he has to offer. This can translate in many things: he wants to win a sports competition, or even cook you the most sophisticated dishes.
6. You are no longer loved: your partner finds all possible excuses not to stay at home
If you realize that your partner spends all his time at the office, travels a lot and plans all his evenings with his friends rather than going home to enjoy a good movie night with you, it is clear that he is avoiding you. He is no longer as interested as before.
7. You are no longer loved: your partner suddenly has a new passion, and it's not you
After devoting every minute of his life to making you happy, he now spends all his time doing sports or other passions and hobbies. So be careful, it is quite normal and healthy to invest in activities that make us happy. But in this case, these activities may be used to take more and more distance from your relationship.
8. You are no longer loved: your partner no longer invites you to plans and activities
Your partner organizes more and more activities with his friends and even goes on vacation without you. No more romantic dinners, improvised getaways or walks to the beach. When he no longer offers you anything, it announces the color on his desires to end the relationship.
9. You are no longer loved: you often feel guilty and you are made guilty
As soon as a problem or conflict arises, your partner puts the blame on your back, whatever the reason. When you try to discuss it, he tells you that you see problems where there are none. He also reproaches you for not making enough effort in the relationship. It's time to put things flat and have a serious discussion about everyone's needs and expectations.
10. You are no longer loved: your partner seems absent and thoughtful
This last point is more difficult to notice. When your partner no longer seems to be 100% present during your conversations and he is too dreamy, it is probably because he no longer has any interest in what you have to tell him.
And you, what language of love or indifference do you speak? Do you recognize yourself in one of them or do you do other things to show your love for a person? On the contrary, have you noticed a sign of distance in your partner?